I'm willing to bet most people who develop an interest in Bondage end up looking on porn sites to see what it's all about. Now whether its somewhere like Men in Pain or Chanta's Bitches, or a dominatrix's website for that matter, what you're looking at are professionals who tend to have a lot of equipment to play with. Mistress Nyx has written on her blog of spending a thousand pounds on dresses for sissy maids for example.
Yet, as I've said, they're professionals, familiar with any number of techniques and levels of experience. That won't be true of anyone starting out, so they should keep it small.
Go for a simple spanking for instance. You can do it even if your partner still has their clothes on, progressing to nudity as part of the fun as when you please. Another good thing to start with is pet play. You don't need anything to start, just a little roleplay and a sense of fun.
From there experiment however you like.
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