Ballgags

There are few things sexier than someone wearing a ballgag.  From the way they fill the mouth to the way they make a person look so helpless, ballgags are beautiful things.  Better yet, if there not to tight, the person wearing them can smile after a fashion.  When I talked about BDSM involving love and play being a fun time in earlier posts, it was that ballgag smile that I had in mind.

Unfortuantely ballgags, when worn for a time, can hurt the jaw.  My last partner was so uncomfortable wearing a ballgag that she asked me to stop using them on her.  I, by contrast, had spent years wearing them, albeit in the privacy of my own room, plus for me, wearing a ballgag kicks off a mini splurge of adrenaline so I don't notice the discomfort as quickly.

Now, if you're new to BDSM, wait a while before proceeding with gags of any kind, but especially ballgags.  There are training gags, where the balls are different sizes, that will help you work your way into it.  Apart from that, just follow your common sense and you'll be set.